“Work at living in peace with everyone, and work at living a holy life, for those who are not holy will not see the Lord. Look after each other so that none of you fails to receive the grace of God. Watch out that no poisonous root of bitterness grows up to trouble you, corrupting many. Make sure that no one is immoral or godless like Esau, who traded his birthright as the firstborn son for a single meal. You know that afterward, when he wanted his father’s blessing, he was rejected. It was too late for repentance, even though he begged with bitter tears.”
Sometimes in my house my kids say, “Well, I didn’t TRY to break it…” I always respond with the same statement: “I know you didn’t try to break it. You have to try NOT to break it.” The Christian life isn’t about accidentally falling into sin and seeing it after the fact. It’s about working hard NOT to sin by leading a holy life. It’s about working hard to live at peace with everyone. We hear the same excuses over and over: “Well I didn’t TRY to get into that fight…” or “I didn’t TRY to have an affair.”
What are you watching out for today? Are you on the lookout for bitterness in your life? Are you simply catching yourself after the fact and wishing you had done something differently? Esau’s story is captured in Genesis 25, when his impatience and hunger causes him to make a foolish decision to give up his inheritance for a bowl of soup. Always a good idea to avoid decision-making when you are hungry, angry, lonely, or tired. Don’t be like Esau, settling for the immediate reward and figuring the rest will work itself out later. Life doesn’t work like that. Long-term consequences DO come, and often it’s too late to change the inevitable outcomes.

It’s boring to talk about making wise long-term decisions. There are absolutely zero movies and TV shows with that plot. But that’s the one-foot-in-front-of-the-other way that following Jesus works. You have to watch your step, think long-term (and by long-term I mean with an eternal view), and work hard to do the right thing. Living by the minimum standard isn’t freedom, it’s fake. When you really care about something, you are wholehearted about it. What eternal and supernatural realities are you working towards? Take time to sit with that question because it is a key to freedom.